
PostsIt’s been 15 years since Kristin Smart disappeared. To this day, her disappearance is an unsolved case.
Kristin, a 19-year-old freshman at the time of her disappearance, went to a student’s birthday party off campus the night she went missing on May 25, 1996, during Memorial Day weekend. She was last seen with fellow student Paul Flores on her way back to the dorms, but many of the details about what happened that night remain uncertain.
For Kristin’s mother, Denise Smart, these past 15 years have been difficult, she said.
“The hardest thing to live with is that you don’t know where your child is. You don’t know if she’s in a ditch, behind someone’s house. Our daughter doesn’t deserve that; no child deserves that,” Denise said.
In Denise’s version of what happened the night Kristin went missing, someone slipped a drug in Kristin’s drink. Another student at the party, Cheryl Anderson, along with Flores, offered to walk Smart back to the dorms. Anderson later described Flores as acting “obnoxious and inappropriately,” so Anderson left Flores to walk Kristin the rest of the way, Denise said.
When Kristin left for the party Friday night, her backpack was left on her bed and her lipstick had fallen out of it. When her roommate returned Monday after the long weekend, Kristin’s backpack and lipstick were exactly where she had left them three days earlier — something wasn’t right.
Campus police did not initially file a missing person report to local law enforcement because they thought Kristin had taken an unannounced vacation over the long weekend. It was five days after her disappearance before the report was filed.
“The first hours of a disappearance are the most critical in an investigation,” Denise said. “In the meantime, Paul Flores was able to do whatever he wanted to do for five days.”
This event led to the Kristin Smart Campus Security Act. Effective in California, the law requires campus police to report potential criminal cases involving missing students or violence to the local police force.
Even with the Sheriff’s Department involved, Denise is still frustrated with the lack of communication and commitment by the police, she said.
“We try to be relentless but we probably haven’t had anyone contact us from the Sheriff’s Department for minimally three years, maybe even five,” Denise said. “Communication is an issue. We were hopeful with the new sheriff things would be different, but so far it’s the same song, second verse.”
Denise and her husband Stan regularly get calls from people who say they have tried to contact the Sheriff’s Department with tips and leads but no one has returned their calls, Denise said.
“The Sheriff’s Department can tell us they respond to every tip but then why do people call us and tell us no one has called them back?” Denise said.
Even with the leads and the tips, neither the Smarts nor law enforcement know anything more 15 years later than what they knew a month after she disappeared, Denise said.
“That puts us in a desperate place. Little faith. Little hope,” Denise said.
To find hope, Denise comes back to San Luis Obispo where she feels closest to Kristin. Denise and Stan return to San Luis Obispo every three to four months.
“Kristin loved the coast, especially Shell Beach,” Denise said. “That community really embraced Kristin. I get recharged when I get there. My husband (Stan) has a hard time coming to SLO because he spent two months digging through trenches and going under houses wherever anybody thought they had a lead. It’s harder for him.”
Kristin was declared legally dead in May 2002, six years after she went missing. The FBI has Kristin on file as a missing person investigation. There is a $75,000 reward for information that helps to find her.
University Police Chief Bill Watton was not working for the University Police Department when Kristin disappeared but said he has heard many rumors.
“I’ve heard very little fact about this case. I think what you’re going to find is a whole lot of rumor and not a whole lot of fact,” Watton said. “There’s a ton of things out there that people are talking about that they have no personal knowledge of.”
Because the Sheriff’s Department insists the case is under active investigation, records and documents are not made available to the public.
Attorney Mark Connely has worked for the Smarts the past four years. He is defending the family for the civil action filed by the Flores family. The Smarts are being sued for alleged emotional distress caused by investigating their son, Paul Flores.
“This is an interesting civil case because by the Flores’ going out and suing the Smarts, they put the attention right back in the center of things, whether their son is the one who did it,” Connely said. “(The Flores’) want to silence the Smarts, but by suing they effectively bring it right back to square one — (this issue of) did Paul do it.”
Police have questioned Paul Flores but he has taken the Fifth Amendment.
In the light of recent reported sexual assaults, Kristin’s disappearance has much relevance to Cal Poly, Denise said.
“With the sexual assaults that (have) been going on in campus, I think you’re in a fortunate state because the new president is acknowledging that there is a problem and he is addressing it,” Denise said. “Kristin really paid the ultimate price to Cal Poly’s blind eye to rape on campus because her story was basically ignored. Because of that, we not only lost our daughter, we’ve lost 15 years of our lives trying to fight for what she deserves.”


Maybe “Bill Watton” should pick up the phone and call the Smart family if he ‘hears rumors and thinks there are no facts’. Maybe too, it’s time the new president of Cal Poly does something to help find the facts. After all Kristin was a Cal Poly student and Cal Poly’s police force botched the case. Maybe a fund to help local law enforcement in their investigation – huh ?
There’s really no reason to investigate this case further… its been 15 years, nothing new’s going to turn up
Not to say this isn’t a sad case, but I really don’t think there’s any point to throwing money at the police force; I don’t see what they could investigate at this point with additional money.
Thank you Catherine for helping to keep Kristin’s memory alive! It continues to be a very treacherous and lonely road in our quest to bring Kristin home and justice to be served! The support of the community and especially those who are willing to help us, is what keeps us going! This crime did not happen in a vacumn, someone holds the key to what Paul Flores did that night! We are hoping Facebook can help keep her story and our hopes alive! Please join Kristin’s cause on Facebook, “Kristin Smart is STILL Missing”! Paul Flores has gotten away with murder and kidnapping, our hopes like with everyone reading and sharing this post! Thank you again!
It is remotely possible she is not dead. There is a long list of missing college students who disappeared under strange circumstances. Remember Brian Shaffer, Maura Murray, Michael Netrete, Justin Gains, Josh Guimond and recently Nick Coppola? They are all still missing. Some were sighted on video and known to have vanished while alone.
If Smart created the “special circumstances” for Subliminal Distraction exposure and had the mental break it is known to cause she could be anywhere living a new life with amnesia of her college days.
Some of these missing students do turn out as suicide, crime, or accident victims. But there is a consistent small number that are never found. There are other cases on the Missing Students page at VisionAndPsychosis_Net.
I don’t understand why people are saying that Paul Flores is a murderer. Has there been an actual trial? In this country you are innocent until actually proven guilty and he hasn’t been. It bothers me that the family would carelessly slander someone like that. I understand that they’re upset that the case hasn’t been solved, and obviously he is a prime suspect, but still. Hopefully she can be found and the truth comes out soon. Poor Kristen. Please people don’t abandon your friends at parties! Part of being a good friend is watching out for one another and making sure you’re safe!
Please people don’t kidnap, rape or murder other human beings. Why does our society push “don’t get raped, don’t get kidnapped” as opposed to “don’t rape, don’t kidnap.” Let’s stop victim-blaming and focus attention on those who are actually at fault.
At what point does Melissa blame the victim? There is a difference between blaming the victim and refusing to demonize a legally innocent man. Asking people to watch out for friends is not blaming the victim, it’s asking everyone to be responsible for everyone. Even sober a person might make a poor decision, and as a friend you should let that person know that you think they are making a poor decision.
You don’t prevent rapes by telling the perpetrator “hey! don’t rape.” You prevent rapes by keeping yourself safe and watching out for one another. That doesn’t mean that the victim is at fault, but treating advice to “watch out for yourself and be careful” as victim blaming a pretty outrageous position to take.
Pretty sure if we all taught our fathers/brothers/sons/cousins/uncles/best friends/roommates/etc. to not rape and not be sexually violent there would be a lot less cases of sexual assault. What do you want me to tell my daughter? …Who was wearing jeans and a sweatshirt, who was sober, who was with a group of friends, when she was sexually assaulted? She didn’t make a “poor decision.” Only rapists can stop rape.
I notice a distinct lack of male pronouns there. Women are just as capable of sexual assault as men.
My point is that the attitude that victims have no control over their life is a horrible mindset to be in. When i go to parties with friends, i keep an eye out for them, do my best to keep them safe. If somebody at that party has assault on their mind, i’m going to make sure that they are going through me before they do anything to my friends. That’s what Melissa’s point was, before kim popped up with a totally undeserved “don’t blame the victim.” By working together we can turn sexual assault into attempted sexual assault
r u a moron or r u just dumb the man all but admitted to murder he was going to show police where her body was until him and his lawyer found out the the police had no evidence u r very stupid
I was a sophomore Ag-business major living in Sierra Madre Hall and my girlfriends roommate was Cheryl Anderson, I remember that weekend to this day and at 37 years old I often think of what happened to Kristine Smart. I also had a class (Ag Sales & Services) with Paul Flores, remembering his oddities and social awkwardness and the rumor that even prior to the disappearance of Kristin that many in the dorm crowd referred to him as Chester the molester as sort of a nickname that he was not your typical happy go lucky Cal Poly Student, but in contrast, classes with Scott Petersen were normal as you could imagine.
Let the memory of Kristine and the memory of Rachel Newhouse and Andrea Crawford serve as reminders that even in a sleepy college town like SLO, danger can potentially lurk around every corner.
I think M and Melissa should b shot. Did u help kill her or something? Paul did do it and I think there should should b people like the boon dock saints that go around and kill every person that hurts someone else( aka) rape, murder, child abuse in n e way etc. I hope some one kills Paul and his family. Who does that? I mean he is twisted and so is his family and n e one who takes his side.
Agreed. I hope melissa and m are paul flores’ next victims since they are so stupid not even their parents would miss them. After, and only after he murders melissa and m, Paul Flores should die a slow and painful death.
Denise, as a father of a 16 year old, I wonder how you keep from going crazy after such a horrendous experience. I don’t think that i could be a strong as you and i never want to find out first hand where you get the strength. I admire you.
Paul Flores offered to show police where her body is in exchange for a reduced charge and limited prison sentence. Tell me, what does an innocent person do if you’re alone with someone who suddenly dies? You’d call 911 of course, instead of hiding the body and making trying to make deals with the police.
It’s obvious Flores is guilty, but probably won’t face justice until Kristen’s body is found, and maybe not even then.
Agreed. I hope melissa and m are paul flores’ next victims since they are so stupid not even their parents would miss them. After, and only after he murders melissa and m, Paul Flores should die a slow and painful death.
Denise, as a father of a 16 year old, I wonder how you keep from going crazy after such a horrendous experience. I don’t think that i could be a strong as you and i never want to find out first hand where you get the strength. I admire you.
What I am sitting here trying to grasp is WHY didn’t the campus police @ Cal Poly report this until 7 days later & WHY on heavens earth was he unable to be held accountable with the facts that are clearly layed out (willing to make known where the childs body is for a reduced charge,the evidence that was given by trained police dogs,he was the VERY LAST one to be seen with her,and HER damn earring in HIS mother’s driveway, etc…etc…etc…you don’t even need to be a rocket scientist to figure this case out…that snot nosed little mama’s boy should have been charged back in 1996 for this crime…THE PROOF IS IN THE PUDDING!!!…What really get’s me is the fact that his parents more than likely know that their little demon spawn did the crime and got away with it (for now anyways) BUT they can not even teach him right from wrong or raise him with a conscience to know what he is doing to this family by not manning up and at least giving this family some closure by telling them where she is at!..Wasn’t it bad enough that he has taken their child from them???…I so hope that he get’s caught while he is still alive so he can be convicted of it and sent to prison where he can become some big mans (putting it nicely) “little woman”…let’s see if his parents can save their murderer from that!…I tell ya,it’s just not safe even sending your children to school anymore with children out here like Paul Flores!…In my opinion, Cal Poly should be held accountable as well considering they didn’t turn this case over to the Police Dept as they should have & when they should have!…My prayers go out to the Smart Family and I so hope that you are able to find the closure that you need and you are able to get Kristen back home & layed to rest peacefully!
I just watched the Girl, gone episode. What Kristen’s family have gone through these last 18 years. To know who is responsible, to see that person just carry on with their life while Kristen’s was taken
http://www.californiaregister.com/kristin-smart/the-cal-poly-cover-up/